I am where I am

Sometimes we get tired of our lives. Tired of being where we are in life. Sometimes you can get depressed just thinking about where you actually are in life compared to where you thought you would be. Have you ever looked around at your life and wondered, “how did I get here?”? Everybody has an expectation in there own mind about people, including ourselves. The thing is, most of your expectations have been adopted or conditioned by other people in your life. So you end up thinking you want or respect one thing and lean another direction in your own life. The thing is, you expect perfection from yourself, and perfection is only what you describe it to be, making it impossible to personally achieve it. You will subconsciously keep the bar over your head because you have been conditioned to know that “nobody” is perfect. The thing is, ……I could go on for a long time!

The point is….being comfortable with where you are is the only thing that really matters. Because not being perfect if ok. Not being in the relationship you want is ok. Not being where you want to be in life does not make you a failure, it makes you OK!!! Learning to be truly OK with where you are will not only relieve some burdens off your mind, but it will also open the doors to realizing new ways of getting closer to where you do want to be. When your finally ok with not having that relationship, watch how fast it appears before your eyes! Have you ever been looking for a job for a long time and once you get an offer and accept it, all the sudden everybody wants to interview/hire you. It’s because you were relaxed enough with where you were, all the sudden you get a flood of wanted things.

Let yourself love the now you. Let yourself enjoy the things in your life right now. Look for things that excite you or make you smile when you see them. Let it be ok. Let it be ok that you are learning and growing. Let it be ok to explore and find your own ways. Remember, nobody ever wanted anything for any other reason than the feeling better in having it. Find ways to feel better every day and notice what happens!

Have a great day and don’t forget to be kind, love, and support yourself in everything you do.

Published by vybstat

Medical Assistant turned Life Coach because while I do enjoy optimizing the body, I really love to optimize the mind.

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