Are you controlling under the disguise of care? If you really care for somebody you will not get upset, angry, or hurt. You will keep searching for different ways to help, encourage, or comfort them. If you are struggling in a relationship, you should stop and observe if there is any control hidden behind your care! Others are not typically wrong, just different. Try caring instead of controlling and change two futures!
Care creates love while Control feeds your ego
Care engages connections while Control cuts them off
Care encourages healing while Control causes pain